21 Tips on How to Be a Perfect Girlfriend for Your Guy

Being perfect isn’t easy, but it’s totally achievable if you know what your guy really wants. Guys have a different perception of what they consider a “perfect girlfriend” to be, but still there’s stuff most of us agree to be good qualities in a girlfriend. Women are not the only one’s looking for their soul mate, “the One” is a guy’s goal too. Apply the 21 tips below so your guy will never ever think of cheating or breaking up, because you’ll be the perfect girlfriend for him.

The list of “Qualities of a Perfect Girlfriend” below is not in any particular order of importance; see which of them are most applicable to your guy’s desires and preferences. There is always something your guy wants, but he is too shy to ask or tell you. Many of these things are in the list below and learning how to be a perfect girlfriend no guy will ever want to lose has never been simpler.

1. Look Great for Him

A perfect girlfriend always gives her best to look beautiful for her man. Men are visual creatures. We like a woman that looks good, that’s obvious. So take care of your looks. You don’t have to look like a supermodel – not at all, just look the best you can, use body lotion, have soft, silky smooth skin that he wants to kiss day and night.

Keep things fresh, and stay as beautiful as you were when you just met – even better, work on yourself to become even more beautiful physically.

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2. Smell Great for Him, Be Beautiful

There’s nothing like smelling amazing for your guy. A scent of a woman can make a man fall deeply in love; your smell gets engraved deeply in his mind. He can recall it and remember you immediately.

Have a unique smell, a perfume he loves. Use shampoo that he loves so your natural scent makes him melt of love. It’s so much easier to love your girlfriend if she’s beautiful and gives her best to stay beautiful for you. Don’t get lazy.

3. Stop Nagging and Complaining

Nagging all day long won’t help solve your differences. Sooner or later, he’ll break up with you if he gets fed up. Men need their space and freedom too. If you are constantly complaining about not-so-important stuff, you just create negative energy in your relationship and he slowly grows to hate, instead of love you.

Remember: the line between love and hate is a thin line indeed.

Communicate differently. Find a common language. Maybe your approach isn’t really motivating him to change himself. If he’s doing something you don’t like, there must be a smarter way to approach the situation. Use positive motivation like… reward him with love and affection when he does what you like, then he’ll do more of it, and he’ll do it often. Be his partner, not his enemy.

4. Love Him

A perfect girlfriend loves her guy more than anything. She really loves him and will do anything to keep him happy and satisfied. If necessary, she’ll even get into a fight for him. Loving him is the first step to being a great girlfriend, he needs to know and feel that you really love him. Cuddle, hug, kiss, smooch, make love and say “I love you” whenever you have chance.

5. Love Yourself

Being insecure and asking “am I fat?” 20 times a day is annoying. Stop being insecure – it’s not attractive. Your guy will have a hard time to love you if you can’t love yourself first. Do everything to feel great in your own skin. When you love yourself, you are more confident and you radiate a positive energy that draws people to you.

Do good things and make other people happy – this will give you more “life credit” and it will make you feel better about yourself. Make other people happy and you’ll be a happier person. Yes, it’s that simple. A girlfriend that radiates positive energy, smiles every day and enjoys life is definitely a better girlfriend than some cranky b*!ch that sucks the life out of your brain.

6. Be Devoted

Obviously, a perfect girlfriend isn’t just faithful, but also never makes her guy even feel jealous at all. You don’t flirt around with other guys if you love your boyfriend. Let him know that he is The Guy for you and that you need nothing other than him. He needs to feel this. You develop trust in him by showing that you are only interested in him.

7. Like His Friends

There’s nothing worse than a girlfriend that doesn’t like your friends – and openly complains about them.

Sure, his best friend Joe may be an imbecile – but he is still his best friend. You can give him a friendly suggestion if you think some of his friends aren’t good for him, but don’t be aggressive about it. Let him make his own decisions. You are his girlfriend, not his mother, and if you continue complaining about his friends, you might just become an annoying ex.

A perfect girlfriend likes my imperfect friends just out of respect. The worst you can do to a guy is to take him away from all of his friends and connections, this makes a guy weaker psychologically, and socially less powerful, so it can shatter his confidence – then you might not be as attracted to him as you were when you just met.

8. Be a Sex Goddess

A girlfriend isn’t “perfect” if she doesn’t perform great in bed. Period.

You can’t just be good in bed – you must be better than all of his ex girlfriends combined. Hundreds of books have been written for women about sex; unfortunately, most of them are complete nonsense. I would only suggest one resource for sex tips, and most men would agree with me, this guide is the only thing I’d recommend (don’t read it if you are under 21 and get offended easily). Read YQ’s review of the guide here.

Great sex brings you closer, and keeps you together for years, and years, even if other spheres of your relationship aren’t perfect. Find out what makes your guy go crazy, and then fulfill all of his fantasies. Yes – all of his fantasies, because that’s what a perfect girlfriend does.

9. Cook Well, Or at Least Try

The path to a man’s heart isn’t that complicated. You need to be amazing in bed, and cook him delicious meals. I know that “contemporary women” don’t have time, energy or the willpower to cook anymore. If cooking is too traditional for you, then you are probably living in a dream. Nobody expects you to live in the kitchen, but visit it every now and then. It works. I know that a delicious meal is just a phone call away, but even if you make him a simple sandwich that doesn’t even taste that good – it’s the effort that counts, not the taste.

10. Love is in the Details

Give him a gift every now and then. Make him feel loved and special. Do what other women will not, or do rarely, then do it more often. A small token of appreciation is always welcome. Give him a massage. Pamper him. He’ll always return back for more.

11. Appreciate Him

He needs to know and feel that you appreciate his efforts. When he is nice to you, when he makes you feel loved and special, let him know that you value him and that he’s important to you. It will make him feel better about himself and your relationship.

12. Stroke His Ego, Give Him a Compliment

Feed his ego from time to time. Men can also have insecurity issues. Don’t let him get an ego-boost by chasing other women around, instead – give him his “ego shot” yourself.

A man needs to feel attractive and desired too – you’re not the only one. Give him a compliment. Tell him how much you love something about him, or how hot he is to you, how much he turns you on. A compliment makes you feel nice too, so give him that pleasure – every day.

13. Make Him Feel Like a Man

A man wants to be “the man” in the relationship. Let him fill that role whenever possible. If he doesn’t take the lead by himself, still, sometimes it’s okay to do things his way, or have him have the last word. You don’t have to be right every time, let him win an argument – or even better – don’t argue at all. Let him take the lead and you might actually enjoy it.

14. Help Him Grow by Being His Partner, Not His Enemy

You are partners, not enemies. Always keep that in mind. A perfect girlfriend is “perfect” because she helps her guy achieve more, grow further, and fulfill his full potential. Maybe even his destiny. You have the power to motivate him and help him grow as a person.

Life can be hard. When times are tough, we all need someone to lift us up emotionally, give us energy and that extra push to keep us going. A perfect girlfriend is never selfish; she is supportive and she is there for her guy in good and bad times alike.

15. Have a Life and Passion

Life is often unpredictable and works in strange ways. You cannot calculate everything. Today – you love your boyfriend, maybe your future husband, but tomorrow? Who knows? You don’t know if you’ll still love him 5 years from now.

Things change. You change, he changes – you might grow to love each other more and more, but also less.

For this reason, it’s important that you have a life outside of your relationship. You need to be busy with your life, progressing, growing as a person, growing in your career, networking and meeting new people, maintaining friendships and creating new one’s.

You need to have something you are passionate about. All of this will make both you, and your relationship stronger; thus, you’ll be a better girlfriend too. Having a life outside of your relationship is crucial if you want your relationship to survive, otherwise both you, and your guy will be too dependent on each other for your happiness. This dependency can be scary, and even evolve into neediness, fear or slight hatred. Having something going for you ensures that you make each other stronger, not weaker. This tightens the bond between you.

16. Be Better Than All of His Ex’s Combined

If you didn’t already know, here’s how men function relationship wise. We compare everything to past personal experiences. Unconsciously, your man is judging you.

You need to be a better, and a more “perfect” girlfriend, than all of his ex girlfriends combined. You don’t have to be the hottest, sweetest, smartest woman in the world – just better than what he has experienced before.

And no, it’s not all about looks. You and your boyfriend may have a different perception of “good looking.” While some girl may be beautiful to you, she can be not-so-hot for your boyfriend, and vice versa.

The reason he’s with you, is probably because you already are better than his ex-girlfriends. In order to keep him, you’ll have to continue being better than any potential chick (enemy) that may come along.

The problem with the “be better than his ex’s” theory is that… if his ex girlfriend could do stuff in bed which you can’t – you’ll have to step up your game. If she did something he loved, and you don’t – he will miss it, and may look elsewhere for satisfaction.

That’s the cold, hard truth. Work on it if your goal is to be perfect for him, and erase any other woman from his memory forever.

17. Give Him Space, Don’t Be a Menace

A perfect girlfriend gives a guy space. You can’t be over-demanding. Some women try to keep a guy by calling him 24/7 and being overly clingy – this won’t work for long. Sooner or later, he’ll get fed up and he’ll want to break free by breaking up.

Instead of putting pressure on him, checking on him, where is he, why is he there, who is he with, when will he be home, why he did this and not that etc. instead of doing that – let him be free within your relationship.

Give him space. The best way to keep a guy is by being able to let him go. The less you try to “control him” the more control you’ll have over him, because when you trust him 100%, he will trust you back and give his best to maintain and earn that trust.

Give him time for himself, his friends, work, whatever he needs – then when you are together, make sure he has an amazing time, so that then he is the one that wants to spend more time with you, and so that he’s the one calling you all day, or waiting for your phone call.

Create balance in your love life. Being able to trust is an essential quality of every great girlfriend. Join that club today!

18. Have a Pleasing Personality

The women men love most, are the one’s that naturally have a pleasing (not demanding, negative, nagging all day) personality. A woman with a “pleasing personality” puts your pleasure first.

She does what you like, she pleases you in any way she can, even if it takes some effort from her side. She is devoted, she loves you and she’ll do anything for you.

That’s a girlfriend that gives more than she takes in a relationship – she has a pleasing personality, and men adore women like this. If you are a feminist and you “bow to no man” – that’s all great and cool, equality, bla bla bla, whatever – but you’ll have a hard time to find real love.

A relationship should benefit everyone, neither just the guy nor just you. Stop putting stupid “rules” in your mind and stop restricting yourself. I’m not saying you should wash his feet and let him abuse you – but give the guy some slack. If you’re not ready to make him feel like a King inside and outside of the bedroom, some other woman will; she’ll be considered “perfect” – you won’t.

19. Don’t Take Him for Granted, Don’t Get Lazy

Nothing is for granted, not even your boyfriend. So don’t treat him that way. The worst thing you can do in your relationship is to get lazy. You stop paying so much attention to him, you stop appreciating all the little things you used to love about him, you stop having crazy sex all over the house, you stop taking care of yourself and your looks, you stop being pretty for him, you start eating a ton of junk food, watching TV series and you get incredibly fat.

Then you wonder why you got dumped? No wonder. Don’t be one of those chicks that take things for granted. Seduce your boyfriend – every day – all over again.

That’s what a perfect girlfriend does. This will motivate him to work on himself as well to keep up with you. Love isn’t just given – you need to put some effort into keeping it, and helping it grow even further.

20. Work Out Regularly

The better you look, the better you’ll feel in your own skin, and the more attractive you’ll be to your boyfriend. A perfect girlfriend gives her best to get in shape – and then stay in shape. Look great for him and you’ll be the perfect girlfriend in his mind. Here are some reasons why you should work out every day.

21. Be Feminine

Gone are the days when women were women, and men were men. Now women are becoming manlier every day, and guys are behaving like total losers with no self-confidence or determination. “A good man is hard to find” – so they say, but, according to many men, a good, sexy, feminine woman may be even harder to find.

Nowadays, women take care of themselves less and less, they get wasted, throw up on the street, drink more beer than guys (disgusting), some don’t even shave. That’s cool and all, but not my cup of tea. A perfect girlfriend is feminine, she knows how to carry herself, and behaves like a real lady (in public, but not in the bedroom).

Again, I’m not telling you to go back to the kitchen and live by the housewives’ guide from the 50s  , but still, the majority of men love a sweet, sexy woman that takes good care and knows how to carry herself.

22. Lift!

Oh. Yeah. I already told you to work out. Well, just in case you didn’t get how important this is, here’s a reminder: Lift, lift, LIFT! And you’ll be the sexiest ever, not just physically, but mentally as well. Don’t worry, working out won’t get you buff. Keep squatting and get in the best shape of your life and your relationship will, as a result, be in the best shape of its life.

There you go. Give this to any guy, and he’ll agree on at least 18 out of 22 tips – they are what make a girlfriend fabulous. Apply what you can to your relationship and you’ll see an instant improvement. Try these tips and see for yourself.

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Top 11 Ways to Propose a Boy

Proposing to your boyfriend can be sticky business, given the many centuries behind us of layered social and cultural tradition that dictate that it's the male's duty to court and eventually propose to the female.

In these modern times, however, many women feel the urge to pop the question and gain a commitment that they're sure about. How do you sidestep one of civilization's oldest rituals and get the man you want? Take a deep breath and get started!

Steps

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   Reach your own sense of comfort with making this move. There is no reason that a woman cannot make a proposal to a man these days.^[1] What may be holding you back is fairytale visions, concerns about the man's feelings, and simply getting up the courage to ask something that can carry the risk of rejection.

   • Be sure that he is "the one" and that you are totally ready for this commitment before launching in. How will this change your life and can you see yourself as being fulfilled with such changes?
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   Gauge your boyfriend's chances of proposing to you. Before you do consider proposing, be alert to the possibility that he might be considering proposing. The following "about-to-propose" indicators might help your sleuthing:^[2]
   
   

   • How long have you been together? The longer the time, the more likely he's thinking of proposing.
   • What does he say when you tell him you want to be with him forever? Notice his reactions. Or maybe he is the one doing all the talking about the future.
   • Has he been acting a little nervous lately, and perhaps even showing interest in other people's weddings? Perhaps he's started saving up all of a sudden, or he's even indulged you by asking what you're reading when looking at bridal magazines in the store.
     
   • Is he spending more time with you and less with his friends lately? Does he appear more nervous around your own friends?
   • You've caught him looking in your jewelery box.
   • He's keen to spend time around your parents and family all of a sudden.
   • He's arranged an unexpected outing that is out of character. It could be the proposal!
     
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   If your boyfriend is highly responsive to your probing about spending yourfuture together or he has initiated discussions about your future together, or the "indicators" seem to hint at a forthcoming proposal, you could decide to go ahead knowing you're making the right decision. You could also choose to wait, since a proposal may be coming your way, but since the point of this article is not about waiting and about you doing the proposing, don't feel obliged to wait. On the other hand, if he seems to be fairly non-committal about the future the two of you have together, you may need to look into this a little further, although a proposal is one certain means for getting commitment issues out into the open!
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   Be considerate of the emotional realities. While the modern approach to proposals has been turned on its head, the old-fashioned notions continue to linger. So, be understanding that there is a sense of "weirdness" for some men when it comes to a woman doing the proposing. Whether he's the biggest jock or the biggestgeek, a lot of men are uncomfortable with the idea of a woman assuming the role of the "proposer". Ask yourself: Is your guy enlightened enough to handle this?

   • Consider sounding out his possible reaction by creating a fictitious scenario in which a co-worker or a friend of a friend who is a female proposed to her now-husband. Tell him about it and gauge his reaction from the story by weaving in your opinion about what happened and eliciting his views with some careful questions or statements. Based on these reactions, you will have a better idea of his responsiveness.
   • Be reassured by the fact that many men need and actually like this "nudge", especially to change long-term dating or cohabiting into a marriage.^[3]
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   Consider if you're enlightened enough to handle this. Gone will be your guy getting down on bended knee. Gone will be his attempts to compare the 4C's when saving up for the engagement ring. And gone will be a romantic gesture at which you get to flutter and feel fussed over. Are you OK with this? Because if you're not, stop right now!

   • Will you be happy when other people keep asking things like "So where did he propose to you?" and "How did he propose to you?" You will have a lot of setting people straight on this, so be forewarned that a good sense of humor is much needed!
   • If you're the kind of woman who lives life large and isn't worried about conventions and knows what she wants, this step will be a breeze to jump over. When you know what the right thing to do is, you know it, so get to it!
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   Be aware that talking a lot about future commitments will put your boyfriend's relationship radar on alert. It might be gradually evident but anything smelling of long-term commitment is something most guys tend to pick up fairly soon. You may be getting vibes and signals about the appropriateness or otherwise of thinkinglong-term commitment for the pair of you by now, so let this be part of your guide as to the suitability or otherwise of proposing.
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   Prepare for the proposal. This is up to you but you're now in the position of making it as romantic, wonderful, surprising, and loving as possible. Things to think about include:

   • Where will you propose? His favorite running park, his contemplation spot overlooking the sea, out on a yacht, at a sit-down meal, or walking somewhere special together? Think about what places matter a lot to both of you, as well as a place where you'll be sure that the two of you won't be interrupted or distracted.
   • Avoid doing anything that is out of character for you. Let your own personality traits shine through as a big part of the proposal, because that's why he loves you.
   • Take care to avoid simply switching how you think you'd like to be proposed to and planting that idea onto this proposal. He's a man and flowers and intimatecandlelit dinners may not be the best way to his heart on this occasion. Use what you know about your boyfriend to tailor a very special proposal.
   • Are there any inside jokes you can rely on to help the proposal take on more meaning?
   • The ring isn't really an issue here. If he says yes, the two of you can now do the modern thing of choosing your engagement ring together. However, some women do provide a token ring, such as a beer tab, at the moment of proposal;^[4] the suitability of such a token depends on your own preferences and your knowledge of him.
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   Think about what you're going to say. There is no standard proposal and no right or wrong way but it is important to express how much you love him and to identify specific things about him that cause you to want to spend the rest of your life with him. Talk about the future and how much it means to you to have him by your side in this future; paint the vision for him as you propose.

   • Brief is good. He will probably be very surprised and the more you drag it out, the harder it gets for both of you!
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   Check your confidence again. If you're not ready to do this, do some further investigation into what's holding you back or confusing you and revisit the proposal when you feel more confident. Otherwise, it's full steam ahead.
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    Propose. You are going to be nervous and there is always a risk of a negative or non-committal response. Be prepared for that and also have a gracious response in reply in that event. If you've read all the signs right though, he is likely to say yes.

    • Let your heart guide you. While it's a good idea to rehearse your proposal words beforehand, it's also good to keep some of it spontaneous.
    • Admit to your nervousness; this vulnerability is endearing and helps your boyfriend to understand just how much courage this is requiring from you.
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    Celebrate. If he says yes, have something special planned to celebrate the occasion such as opening a bottle of champagne or going somewhere that's special to both of you.

    • Maintain a mood of grace and acceptance if he says no or that he needs time to think it over. Putting on a turn or cold-shouldering him will only cause him to feel reassured that declining your proposal was the right thing to do. Tell him it's OK to take more time but that your proposal definitely still stands.

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Top 10 Ways to Propose a Girl

Girl’s biggest dream is her perfect proposal. Every girl has a dream, to be asked The Question. But what and How? Guys are lacking is the romance and creativity to ask such an important question. Most of girls do not want the ordinary scenario, that is the guy getting down on one knee with a red rose in his hand, and just proposing. Though this is an old way of proposing. You can make your proposal as the best and the most romantic date with your loved ones. I am here to give you the top 10 best ways to propose a girl. and I am sure your girl of your dreams will say yes. These are just ten best ways to propose a girl.. Try them out and win the heart of your lady.

Lets check the 10 Best Ways to Propose a Girl.

1. Be yourself

This is the first rule that you need to get into your mind when you think of proposing a girl. Do not overdo your proposal. Keep it simple yet special and sweet. Listen up fellas if you want to capture your woman’s heart by a marriage proposal, then follow your heart and hers. Be creative, and be yourself. Its every girls dream to have a guy propose to her. Be who you are, and in your own special way say those three golden words.

2. Candle lit Dinner

This is a classic but one of great ways to propose your dream girl. Candles are one of the quintessential elements of a romantic evening. The dim lights of the candles burning flames and the romantic tunes sets one of the perfect settings for a romantic proposal. A candle lit dinner is a romantic way to propose to anyone who holds a special place in your heart and the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Guys set the mood, by preparing and cooking your significant other their favorite dinner. Turn off all lights and lit the candles, play romantic songs. The glowing of the candles sets a mood for a night full of romance and is one of the most perfect scenes to propose. It will set the mood for love and romance.

3. Place Where You Met First Time

Take her to the place where you met each other for the first time. Recreate the same moment and then propose to her. It will definitely move her and get embossed on her memory for lifetime. Its one of the romantic ways to propose. Here some useful tips for your first date.

4. Special Day

What better way to propose to the woman of your dreams is on Valentines Day, Christmas Day, Eid Day, Holly or Dewali Day. Corny but very romantic. Yes I realize a lot of you guys propose on ‘Valentines Day‘ because it is a national holiday and a romance filled day. But to make the proposal extra special, propose on a causal day. Pick a day that has special meaning to you both, such as a birthday, anniversary of your friendship or the day when you went for your first date and etc. A proposal isn’t something to take lightly. For a guy to remember special days such as the anniversary of friendship or first date and to propose on that particular day is a special proposal to a woman. A marriage proposal is a commitment between two people who are deeply, passionately in love.

5. Proposal During a Movie Break

The very romantic and easy ways to propose your beloved. This way of proposing is tried and tested and it works, really. Edit and compile a short lovely movie which pop up the special question and screen it during the interval. It should be fun to see her reaction.

6. T-shirt Proposal

Get a t-shirt with the text “will you marry me” or “Do You Love Me” and wear a jacket over it, take her to a nearby park or a place you usually meet up and get down on your knees and reveal your special tee to her.

7. Picnic in the Park

This is a simple but romantic ways to propose to the woman you love. What better way to propose to the woman of your dreams is by sticking her engagement ring inside the chocolate covered strawberry. Plan a perfect plan for a picnic. A nice and beautiful scene, Green hills and valleys and your loved one lying on your chest. This romantic moment can be made more beautiful chocolates covered with strawberry, bucket of a chilling champagne. You can stick ring with the choclate wrapper and cover it with strawberry for proposing your girlfriend for marriage. You can make this picnic even more beautiful by singing a romantic song for your loved ones.

8. Radio Proposal

The girls love brave guyes. Any girl would love the guy who propose her would have the guts to propose in front of thousands of people listening over the radio waves.

If you know she listens to the radio at a certain time everyday, making a dedication will work charms with her. Call your local FM radio station, one you know she will be tuning into. What would you say on the radio? That is clearly up to you. But it should be something memorable and sweet. Dedicate you beloved, her fevorite romantic song. Have the radio play you and your “song,” together, and a sweet proposal following before or after the song. Then have her phone in after the song to give her answer over the radio waves. She definatly answer ‘YES’

9. Surprising By Hiding In A Box

This one can be easy, but a lot of coordination is required to execute this proposal. Hiding yourself in a box wrapped with gift paper can be a big surprise to her when you are holding a ring in your hand and waiting to be unwrapped.

10. Banner Proposal

If you can’t express your feeling or you are afraid of rejection then you can use banner for proposing a girl. You can get a banner prepared with the word ‘I Love You’ and have it displayed outside her house or in the workplace. It is advised that you do not use her real name on the banner, but use the endearment that you generally use to call her. You can also make a flying banner and can give surprise to your loved one by flying it over her head and making it the most excited and memorable moment of your life. Try this way only when you are sure that she is not going to reject your proposal.

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